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No matter what we do, our future is linked to one prerequisite: the degree of kindness in the man who rules us. (p. 138)
In some ways, Jean Sasson’s Princess reads like a breathless, salacious tell-all. A behind the scenes story of life as a princess in the Saudi royal family. But beneath the glamorous veneer are stories of torture, rape, and misogyny. It confirms every horrible thing we Westerners have ever heard about the treatment of women in the Middle East.
The princess in this book is called Sultana Al Sa’ud who met Sasson in 1983 while Sasson was living in Saudi Arabia. They became friends, and Sultana began to tell her story, which then became the book.
Behind the veil, Sultana is said to be smart and funny, and beautiful. She wants the freedom to choose her destiny, the right to decide how to live her life. But in front of the veil, Sultana is confronted with the reality that a woman’s life is never her own. Especially a woman of the royal family.
The men are controlling. Marriages are arranged. Women and children are treated as nothing more than pets and toys. Sultana’s brother gets all the attention and is allowed to do heinous things with no regard or reprimand. He is after all, male. And males of the royal family are given free rein to do as they like with the riches made available to them.
Females, on the other hand, are only allowed to do what the males allow. And females are monitored closely. There’s little that comes as a surprise in Sultana’s story.
Given this rich background, Sasson’s gossipy writing style gives Sultana’s story a more fictional flavor than Sultana deserves. There are many other reviews available which call into question the veracity of Sultana’s story. I don’t quite know what to make of this so-called controversy.
My take away from the book is what one is supposed to take away. Women are treated horribly in the Middle East and the world has much work to do in ensuring the civil rights of women. I’m not sure Princess does much to advance that cause. It reads more Jackie Collins than anything. I’d suggest giving Princess a pass and read Nnedi Okorafor’s brilliant science fiction series, Binti or Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie’s We Should All Be Feminists, which are both more entertaining than Princess.
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